Not to Please Ourselves
“If there is one thing I dislike, it is the man who tries to air his grievances when I wish to air mine,” quipped P.G. Wodehouse.
One way to measure our maturity in Christ is to assess our conflicts by asking, “Who am I trying to please here?; am I trying to understand or be understood?”
The Apostle Paul asserted, “We who are strong have an obligation to bear with the failings of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to build him up. For Christ did not please himself, but as it is written, “The reproaches of those who reproached you fell on me.” For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus, that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.” (Romans 15:1–7, ESV)
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